When my daughter was little, I spent one afternoon crying my eyes out. I had taken her to school that morning, and my daughter saw two of her little friends. Usually my daughter called their names, and they would run with glee to see her, they would often even hug each other, and then zoom to class.
On this particular day, these two friends of my daughter, acted in a way that made my heart sink. We pulled up, my daughter called out to them, and one little girl said to the other little girl, "run!" They took off running and left my daughter standing there with this look on her face that made me cry off and on for the rest of the day whenever it would cross my mind.
Wow! What happened between yesterday, and the next day? Actually, it wasn't anything, and I found out on any given day the best friend would change. It seemed so fickle, but it was the dynamics of this relationship between second grader's
As I observe other other Christians, I often see things that make me cry off and on when I think about it. What happened between one day and the next?
After the shock, of seeing my daughter's little friends leave my daughter standing there with her teeth hanging out, I found out something very important. The kids learned on a daily basis to forgive each other, and to work things out.
Why does this come naturally to children, but not adults?
My heart is breaking because I see the "forgiveness meter" has risen very little. How could God give "His only"...His only begotten son, and we can hold grudges, bitterness, hatred, and basically renounce one another????
I think our heavenly Father is looking upon this, as I did the day I saw what happened to my daughter, it was total disbelief.
The bible says, they (the world) will know we are Christians by our LOVE. However, I don't see enough of that these days, and I wonder how some people can say they are even Christians, when the foundation of their Christianity is not love and forgiveness.
I've shed some tears over this, and I know Jesus has too. We need to get a hold of the building blocks of a real relationship with Jesus and other's, and we MUST learn to forgive. We MUST come to the point of letting LOVE and FORGIVNESS be among the top things we strive for. Without it, we have NO foundation.
I will never be convinced that it's how much people say they know the bible, that's important. Knowing the bible is important, but it's LOVE and FORGIVENESS that I see as top things to strive for.
Now, because of this I have to pray for my enemies. We all have people out there that when you strip away all the reasons, justifications, excuses, and why they feel the way they do...it's some form of hatred! Our prayer should always be that our enemies let their hatred go. If they say they love Jesus, then prove it! I dare my enemies to pray for me in a way that Jesus will bless me.
Jesus challenged me...instead of praying imprecatory prayers (I never really prayed for that, but I didn't want them to be blessed either) over your enemies...Jesus said, "pray that I will bless them." But I don't want them to be blessed...I want you to erase them. Wrong answer!
If you have children, and even if you don't, you have some kind of idea of what it means to give "your only...." fill in the blank. Jesus gave His ONLY son, and it wasn't just for all these people who loved and adored Him, but it was also for the people who talked behind His back, those who hated Him healing on the Sabbath and calling Himself the Son of God, and a myriad of other things they could hate Him for.
We need a change of heart and the mind of Christ to get a handle on this...let's pray for that!
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