Patience is one of those things you just can't buy! If I could, I would have some stockpiled!! It's been a long time ago, but I looked up patience in the dictionary, and I think one of the definition's was: the ability to wait, without complaining!!
For several month's now, I have been persevering through a situation that I would normally have said, "forget it! I don't need this aggravation!" However, I feel that God has been putting it on my heart to trust Him, and not let my feelings get in the way.
Feelings can be those powerful emotions that send you over the edge when you least expect it. In the bible it says (paraphrased) that a patient man is a man of great understanding. That makes me think of the story of a man that gets on the metro with his three children. The children are running around, making noise, disturbing any peace that can be found. One of the other passenger's becomes annoyed quite quickly. He tries to hold his tongue, but totally exasperated finally says to the father of the children...."Can't you do a better job of keeping your children under control!!" The father lovingly looks up at the man and says, "I am really sorry. I just left the hospital , my wife has just died, and I was sitting here thinking about how a single dad is going to take care of all of these children without their mother, and how much I am going to miss the love of my life" I really am sorry for disturbing you.
Now, if the man who got upset truly understood the other man's situation, he would have reacted differently. The man didn't have all the facts...he didn't fully understand the situation. I think that is why the bible says that a man of patience has great understanding. Meaning he really understands the situation, and because of that can have the patience needed to endure what is happening.
We're quick to access, react, judge, and come to conclusions about any situation on any given day. Sometimes we need to sit back, pray, and see if there's something we are not understanding.
Patience is a virtue. A part of our "character wardrobe" that few of us wear very often. For some silly reason the line from Mary Poppins came to my mind...just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down. Patience is the sugar that helps the medicine of a situation taste better.
I want to have whatever patience I need to fully understand things. If I'm quick to react, I may find out later on that I didn't fully understand. Having patience can give us time to see more clearly, and just like the man on the metro was annoyed...until he truly understood, and wouldn't you have hated to be him when he did?? Good lesson to keep in mind!
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