The Gift of Time
The other night I went to dinner with my Mother-in-law. As we walked into the place where we were going to eat, and as we were walking to our table to be seated, I noticed groups of people sitting together.
I was struck by the fact that people were spending time together. Most of the people I saw looked like they typical family, but then I saw that same typical family, but it also looked as if some extended family members were sitting there too. As I looked closer, I could see that friend's were having dinner together, and couples were having dinner together, and so on.
The busyness of life often keeps the family from spending time together. So, it was a precious thing to see people enjoying each other's company. I heard people kidding each other followed by laughter, I saw people nod their head's as they agreed with what the other person was saying, I saw people sharing their food with each other, and in general having a good time. I noticed all of this in a very short time, but it left a deep impression on me...the importance of family.
My Mother-in-law and I had a great time. We took the time to share our hearts and thoughts with each other. We also laughed and had a great time talking to one another. I was thinking...we need to do this more often.
As I have gotten older, I try to find different ways to spend time with the people I love and are close to me. Time has become one of my most valuable possession's, and there is no way to put a price on being with people we love. When we give of our time, it's a gift.
If you can't remember the last time, or a recent time that you spent time with someone you care about, get out the wrapping paper...it's time to give the gift of your time. Loving each other, making memories, comforting, encouraging, and listening is one of the best gift's we can give or receive.
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